Daidaito a cikin aure

Tehran (IQNA) Matsala da ake kira abu, kimiyya, da dai sauransu, rashin daidaito a kodayaushe ya sa hasken gidan ma'aurata ke kashewa. A cikin wannan labarin, an ambaci ra'ayin kur'ani game da wannan matsala ta zamantakewa.

Daidaiton miji da mata na daya daga cikin muhimman sharudda a auratayya kuma wani abu ne na hadin kai da dunkulewar iyali. Rashin bin wannan yanayin yana haifar da tashin hankali da rashin jituwa a cikin iyali. Ma’anar “kamantuwa” na nufin kamanceceniya ta fuskar halaye da halaye na mutum. Don haka ya zama wajibi ma'aurata su dace da juna ta fuskar shekaru, kimiyya, kudi, al'adu da sauransu.

Kwarewa ta nuna cewa yana da kyau ma'aurata su kasance daidai ta fuskar abin duniya ban da sha'anin ruhi, domin fifikon fifikon daya daga cikin ma'aurata a cikin abin duniya yana iya haifar da girman kai, son kai, fahariya da wulakanci. daya bangaren, musamman a yau cewa dangantakar zamantakewa tana da sarkakiya sosai kuma rashin kula da al'amura na iya haifar da matsala a cikin iyali.

A cikin Alkur’ani mai girma, ayoyi da dama sun yi nuni da muhimmancin wajabcin amincin miji da mata, wanda aka yi nuni da shi a matsayin misali (Baqarah: 221).

Malaman Shi'a da Sunna sun yi imani da cewa a kan wannan aya mai daraja, ba ya halatta ga namiji musulmi ya auri mace mushriki, mace musulma kuma ta auri mushriki. Don haka sai mumini ya zabi mace mumina namiji ne ko mace. Idan kuma yana da matsalar kudi ya kasa auri ’ya’ya mai ’ya’ya mumina, to bai halatta ya auri kafiri (mushriki) ba, domin auren mushriki zai lalatar da addini da ruhin mutum a duniya da zullumi. da matsala a lahira, musamman sabanin imani da halayya da magana zai haifar da tashin hankali da tashin hankali a cikin iyali.

A kan haka, wajen zabar wanda za a aura, wajibi ne a kula don tabbatar da cewa mijin mutum ya daidaita ta fuskar imani da aiki da dabi’a, domin jin dadin ma’aurata a rayuwar duniya da lahira yana da alaka da kowanne. sauran. Kula da wannan lamari zai motsa maza da mata su kula da lafiyar hankali da ruhaniya.

Bincike da bincike a fagen imani da dabi'u da halayen mutum har ma da matsayin zamantakewa da karfin kudi na bangarorin na iya taimakawa wajen gano irin wannan matakin kuma wannan shine mafita don magance wannan cutar da ke barazana ga dangi.